Sunday, September 1, 2019

Goodbye Sweet Pete



Two short months ago I wrote about my family’s old ailing cat Peter and his terrific attitude as he battled cancer.  This Labor Day weekend, on his 19th birthday, we sadly had to say our final goodbyes.  Peter, in his unendingly sweet and beautifully brave way, purred and leaned into my hand as he gradually fell asleep under the effects of the tranquilizer that I administered in anticipation of his euthanasia.

Peter came into our lives, along with his two sisters, 19 years ago - the Friday before Labor Day weekend.  They had been found on a highway embankment by a good Samaritan who delivered the day-old orphans to my veterinary hospital for assistance.  I was the only doctor at the hospital that day that was a “sucker” for orphaned kittens, so I took them home for tube feeding and fluid therapy over the weekend. One of the two sisters died the first night due to their extremely dehydrated and weakened condition. They were newly born and had been outside exposed to the hot sun for an undetermined amount of time.  The two survivors were a jet-black male kitten (Peter) and a tabby female kitten (Punky Lee).    They needed to be tube fed for the first few days of their lives but once they were stronger, they adapted to a bottle. 

Originally, their names were Punky Lee and Frantic Ernie because the little girl was so small and punky, and the boy would eat so frantically and voraciously from the bottle that we always laughed at him and called him frantic.

My children were 4 and 8 years old at the time that we took in the kittens, and they were active participants in their rearing.  They held them in hand towels at night after their sink baths to keep them warm until they dried.  If you have never raised orphan kittens, they get very smelly without their mothers to clean them daily, so sink bathes with baby shampoo are a must.  The kids also learned to feed them bottles, when they were available to help with the frequent feedings.  As every veterinarian parent knows, at some point in the process of fostering animals the children will become emotionally attached to the fosters.  It was particularly true with Punky Lee and Frantic Ernie. As they grew, I could see my children becoming more and more attached.  I knew that we would soon have two more cats in the family, once they cried enough to Dad. 

Peter got his name after Dad was convinced that they needed to stay.  The kids thought that Frantic Ernie was not a dignified name for a cat, and they wanted something that went well with Punky Lee – the name that they liked.  They came up with Peter and started calling the pair, Pete and Punky Lee.   Pete (aka. Peter or Petey Wheatie) was such a sweet soul and spent much of his time with my daughter Bridget.  He would follow her into her bathroom at night to watch her brush her teeth and race her to the bed to be sure that he got the best spot to sleep with her at night.  He always settled into someone’s lap when we were sitting on the couch playing video games or watching TV.  He would purr and beg for treats whenever he was around anyone. He never lost his zest for food, tipping the scales at 17 pounds, before his veterinarian (yes, me) put him on a diet. 

As veterinarians, we strive every day to save and prolong healthy life as long as we can.  We sacrifice our time and money to foster orphan kittens, raise baby birds and rescue stray dogs for no other reason than it is the right thing to do.  We do not receive anything in return, except for the joy of watching that life that you saved unfold and touch others in a beautiful way.  Peter was one of those lives.  He lived and loved well and brought a tremendous amount of joy to our family.

This weekend we mourn our lovely little Peter.   He will be forever remembered and greatly missed.


“If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans.”  - James Herriot

Dr. Julie Cappel




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